Thursday, January 17, 2013

Becoming SAHM



I have traded in my high heels and lunch breaks for lullabies and story times.  I am mama and mom.  The world’s toughest job, richly rewarded with a baby’s first kisses and the joyful exclamations of “I did it!” - fair trade for daily dealings with diaper blowouts and the world-crashing tantrums of a three-year-old.  So far it’s been a tough transition for me; I think it would have been easier to have stayed home from the beginning with my oldest (oh, how I wanted to!) but I think we are finally hitting our groove.  Meltdowns are now occasional rather than hourly (what can I say, I was used to being able to pee without an audience and eat at a leisurely pace while enjoying a good book rather than sneakily shoving in bites while my toddler’s back is turned!).  I’m still figuring out how to balance being with my boys, putting food on the table, and keeping the house from becoming a chaotic abyss, let alone maintaining a good relationship with my husband and finding time for myself.  If anyone has any tips, please clue me in!